I Can’t And I Won’t.
Crossposted to The Spectrum Cafe. Ever since I started transition, ever since I even started to explore my dissonance, people have walked all over me. People have hurt me, used me, fucked me over and...
View ArticleBisexuality, Binarism And Why Everyone Has It Wrong
Crossposted at The Spectrum Cafe I’d like to leave a note here that one can use bisexuality to mean more than two genders attracted to provided they actually share the why for it and that why isn’t...
View Article[Product Review] ScreamingO’s FingO Vibrator for TheirToys.com
Hi folks, welcome to the first ever product review on GB. I even made a separate category! Recently I was asked to review a product from TheirToys.com Sex Toys. After all I do write about sex a lot so...
View ArticleWhen Activism Becomes Self Harm
It’s difficult to write this. Many of us push ourselves. Hard. The things we fight for are precious and denied us so easily, so effortlessly. The pain and suffering we face is awful. Oppression is no...
View ArticleThe Sacrosanct Identity, Bigotry And The Enabling Of Oppression
Crossposted at The Spectrum Cafe Identity. It’s deeply personal and for the most part we go way out of our way to protect it. Not just our own but others as well. At least when identity policing and...
View ArticleWords and Offense
A lot of people seem to be under the impression that I am “politically correct”. This is an odd impression for many reasons, not a few of which relate most to political correctness’ nonsensical...
View ArticleYou Don’t Get To Tell Us Who Our Enemies Are
The internet has been shitstorming lately. It’s a familiar sort of shitstorm, the kind that arises over and over again in response to a far worse thing. Wolves in sheep’s clothing. If you’re not...
View ArticleLove and Disability: Chronic Pain
We don’t like seeing those we love hurt. It’s a completely natural response. We’re tied to these people, be they family, friends, partners, whatever. Our happiness and theirs are linked. Closely and...
View Article[Activist Modus Operandi] The Anatomy of a Call Out (And Why It Needs To Change)
Clarifications: In no way am I saying that the onus is on us to educate. In fact, you can scream in frustration, rage at people or seek out and carve out safe spaces for yourself all you want. I...
View ArticleIndefinite Hiatus/Retirement
Hey guys, I know I haven’t put up anything new in a very long time. This is just to catch everyone up with what’s been going on with me and what will be going on with this website in the future. I had...
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